Porn Almost Ruined My Marriage

I remember like it was yesterday, I was 12 years old and we lived in a apartment complex just outside of Cleveland. When people moved out of their apartments sometimes the maintenance men forgot to lock the door back.So me and my buddies would go into the unlocked doors and look through the closets and you will be surprised at how many people left behind their adult magazines back then. Immediately I was hooked and before long I had accumulated a nice stash of about 20 magazines mostly Playboy and Hustler that I used to keep hidden in a bag underneath my bathroom sink.

By high school I had graduated to adult movies, me and my friends would trade DVD’s based on our interests.This was around the time internet streaming really took off.

While most of my friends spent their weekends at football games and the movie theatre I secretly spent my time in my room watching porn

So when I met my future wife during my first year of college she didn’t really think a lot about my habit. She just figured that’s just what men did. Our first two years of marriage went pretty smooth but then something happened. Around then I started to get into more hardcore porn, and of course I wanted to act some of them act #Inreallife. So I met a girl that was down to have a three way with me and my friend. Something about boy, boy,girl sex has always turned me on.But I guess God had other plans because women I don’t know how they do it but that women intuition is a real thing. I guess wifey just felt like something was off about me, so she checked my phone (which she never does) And she found me and my friend’s and the girls group text message about what we intended to do. She confronted me about it and I came clean. I told her about my desires and how I still wanted my marriage I just also wanted a more intense sex life. She told me that she believes I was a good person but she would no longer be with me if I continued to watch porn because I could not separate the fantasy from reality. I never seen it at as a problem when I would want her to do some crazy stuff to me during sex, I thought women liked to be dominated in the bedroom since that’s what you see a lot in porn. I thought that everything had to be rough and fast to to be good.

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But she helped me understand that sex and love making are two different things. She taught me how to treat her, how to take my time and really enjoy every crease of her body. Then something magic happened the more love and attention I put into our marriage the better our sex life became. As I’ve matured I come to learn how porn is just paid actors acting out a fantasy, but in real life women want to be seen as people not objects. Yes women love sex just as much as men do. But they do not want their bodies used and toyed with. They want real connection and trust. And if you can give them that then ooooh weeee you sir have cracked the code.

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